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Things to do while dating someone

Maybe you just met this person in the military and are curious about the “what-ifs” that come with the relationship.

Dating someone in the military isn’t as glamorous as Hollywood makes it appear.

If you are considering seriously dating a man (or woman) in the military, there are a few things to consider.

Do you feel fragmented when you’re with your partner or do you feel whole? Is your partner trying to force you to become like some figment of their unrealistic dating imagination?

Or are they challenging you to become a better, authentic you?

Does this thought excite you or does it make you feel like you just digested a can of the before mentioned Play-Doh? And you need to have your own identity beyond your spouse. If you don’t want to become like the person you’re dating, should you be dating?

If you can just get your hair, abs, complexion, and clothes just right, then The One will scamper to you like a squirrel to a nut factory. Sure appearance might catch someone’s eye, but it’s personality, values, faith, heart, past, present, and future that’s going to make them stay.

Not trying to change you, but trying to bring the best to the top.

A spouse should be like a gold miner, going under the surface to uncover the invaluable stuff underneath.

You’ve read my posts about for an army girlfriend, navy girlfriend, or military girlfriend.

There are certain things that strong military relationships have.

We all have values that direct us and help us make decisions – problem is most of us have never articulated what those values are.